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The
mouth and the genitalia are the two most pleasure-giving and
pleasure-receiving parts of the human body. We all know when we
eat a delicious diner, or eat a piece of chocolate, or bite into a red
sweet
strawberry we are receiving pleasure. Another experience that
gives our bodies pleasure is when our genitalia is touched and felt by
our partner's mouth. In our society there is a negative
connotation about Oral sex. These ideas may come from the way we
were raised and how we perceive what oral sex is about. Many of us
have thoughts about oral sex. We may feel to engage in it may
be a form of very crude behavior. It is not what nice people
participate in.
As we age our bodies start to change. Women because of the drop in
hormones because of age and menopause may have decrease
lubrication to engage in sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse
may become painful upon penetration and over a period of time she may
lose her interest to have sexual intercourse. In men their erections may
not be as firm as when they were younger. Or they may need more
stimulation to get and maintain and erection. Oral lovemaking can
be very beneficial.
The tongue is a great tool to be used for Oral love making. We all
have them and now is the time to keep and opened mind on what to use
them for. The tongue construction is perfect for oral love making.
Tongues provide their own lubrication in the form of salvia.
Tongues are softer than fingertips and do not have sharp nails to
scratch you. Tongues with practice can be used to give your
partner great pleasure and they will appreciate you for it.
What is oral lovemaking?
For women it is called cunnilingus, for men it is called fellatio.
Oral sex
can be performed to various degrees. Communicate to your partner
your likes and dislikes about performing oral sex. No, one should
be forced into doing anything that they do not want to do. Remember
that you still can get AIDS while engaging in oral sex. For men
wear a condom (the recommendation is to wear a non-lubricating condom or
get one with flavors). Be careful not to bite though the condom. For
women there are dental dams, small rubber sheets that are placed over
the women's genitalia.
Questions that people have asked about oral love making; regarding smell
and taste? With practice and over time one gets used to the smell
(make sure that you are clean before you engage in this sexual
activity). Taste may also be acquired. Discuss with your male
partner about ejaculation. If you have a women partner and the scent of
a women is not want you want, try using something to cover the taste
such as whip cream chocolate sauce or Jell-O.
Foods for thought for Oral love making
Research has been done in what foods make you taste good so your partner
will come back for more of you. So improving your body's taste and
smell should be very important to you. In general, nutritionists say
that alkaline-based foods such as meats and fish produce a butter, fish
taste. Dairy products, which contain a high bacterial putrefaction level
create the foulest tasting fluids. Acidic fruits, such as sweets,
fruits, and alcohol give bodily fluids a pleasant, sugary flavor.
Chemically processed liquors will cause an extremely acidic taste. Stay
away from asparagus if you are planning to
engage in oral sex.
Experimentation is key word here.
Get
some books on the techniques of Oral love making.
Get
a video that can show you how to do it.
Set
the mood for you and your partner.
Communicate
with your partner your needs and desires.
Allow
your partner to express their feelings about engaging in oral sex.
Take a long bath or a warm sensual shower so you will smell fresh and
clean for your partner.
You
learn by doing. Trial and error is what it is all about.
Always keep your sense of humor. Fun is in practicing.
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